Summer Love For You

Creating sexual tension is imperative if you ever want to move past the friendship stage with a woman. And I think I speak for most of us guys when I say this is something we all want.

But how to we create sexual tension? You’ll be happy to know that it isn’t difficult at all. Knowing how to create sexual tension is not rocket science. Any guy can do it if he just follows a few rules.

If you want to know how to create sexual tension with a woman, you would do well to consider these 4 key tips.

1) Try Teasing Her – A little playful banter goes a long way when trying to create sexual tension with a woman. Teasing involves friendly touching, poking, prodding and even hugging. It does not involve insulting, mocking or derogatory statements or actions. In fact, that’s a good way to get slapped…or worse!

2) Be Confident, Not Cocky – There’s a huge difference between confidence and cockiness and you would do well to understand this concept completely. While it is true that some women like jerks, the vast majority do not. You will increase your chances of getting the girl is you create sexual tension by displaying confidence instead of cockiness. Confidence is a huge turn-on to most women. It’s OK to show a sliver of cockiness as long as it is tempered with confidence.

3) Play Hard To Get – Most dating “gurus” will tell you that playing hard to get will ruin your chances of a potential relationship. I respectfully disagree. Sure, playing hard to get CAN be detrimental but,if done correctly, it can be a great way to quickly create sexual tension. By playing just a little hard to get, you can make things happen. For example, if she calls you, don’t answer. In fact, don’t call her back right away.

Confused?

Think about it. You want her to believe that you are popular. You want her to think you have a life. Keep a middle balance and keep her guessing. It will work to your advantage.

4) Use Humor – Humor is the best way to create sexual tension. Unfortunately, many guys never use it. Look, you don’t have to be Chris Rock to pull it off. Some guys are naturally funny and witty but most of us aren’t. You just need a little careful preparation and planning. Commit to memory several funny stories, witty observations and stinging one-liners. Make some of them sexual in nature – but not vulgar. Use them sparingly in your conversation – you don’t want to look like a clown.

Final thoughts: One thing you never want to do is appear nervous. Even if you are nervous, don’t let her know it. This can set you back and kill your chances. Be relaxed at all times. Start using these tips in your dating life and you will see a difference. (Keith Ryker )